Comments on: haterade. http://raaachem.com/2009/04/04/haterade/ Write. Eat. Rinse. Repeat. Mon, 13 Feb 2012 02:13:44 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: What the Hellz?!! » frenemy http://raaachem.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-311 Mon, 25 May 2009 15:47:22 +0000 http://raaachem.wordpress.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-311 [...] with a vagina.   and yeah we may give her the side eye upon meeting her but thats only cuz we a hater but im pretty sure that unless i come out and SAY that i dont like somebody, i dont automatically [...]

]]> By: RLV http://raaachem.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-87 Thu, 16 Apr 2009 12:21:00 +0000 http://raaachem.wordpress.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-87 I just found my new favorite blog.

Damn girl! This post is the truth!

]]> By: yoshi http://raaachem.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-88 Tue, 07 Apr 2009 14:17:00 +0000 http://raaachem.wordpress.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-88 oh yes and yes – talking shit vs the truth – i’m all about the truth, i just add a little bit of flare to it!

]]> By: yoshi http://raaachem.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-89 Tue, 07 Apr 2009 14:17:00 +0000 http://raaachem.wordpress.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-89 OMG – I WAS ABOUT TO POST SOMETHING LIKE THIS ENTITLED “…on being a hater” PUWHAHAHAHA – I’M LINKING YOU BECAUSE I AM THE ULTIMATE HATER. I’M WRITING IN CAPS BECAUSE I AM YELLING THIS OUTLOUD AS I TYPE… IN MY HEAD…

]]> By: Mai http://raaachem.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-90 Tue, 07 Apr 2009 11:03:00 +0000 http://raaachem.wordpress.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-90 …I think this is riiiiiidiculous lol.. No offense please, but I disagree. I think that it is unnatural for women to be such assholes to one another. I think it is natural to want and cultivate a loving community. I think we have been socialized to hate, dismantle and abuse one another…yes, abuse. Your bitchiness, back talk and all out rude behavior is abusive.

It’s surface-oriented and pure insecurity to talk shit about folks over shallow materialistic b.s. I think you need to dive a little bit deeper. Not all women talk shit about one another…some women find it completely easy to give props where props are due and when you see something you don’t like or disagree with can turn your back or say and believe, “To each their muthafuckin own.”

I don’t think you can have this conversation without talking about sexism, objectification, heterosexism and the portrayal of women in the media. It’s much deeper than I just wanna look better than someone cos I’m envious or that bitch stole my man…That shit really doesn’t matter…that’s all EGO.
…get past it.

By talking about folks…it doesn’t prove how secure you are it proves the exact opposite. Furthermore, I also think it is unnatural for folks to be so damn competitive over some shallow ass shit…shoes, clothes? REALLY? Get you priorities straight.

With all this talk about utopia (yes, I read your blog and I think it’s filled with mad substance). I’d think that you wouldn’t just want it but would want to work for it…anything worth having you work at annually, yea?

Being a good and worthy person is worthwhile…and if your integrity isn’t enough reason to think twice about your character…maybe karma is a bit of an incentive.

]]> By: Raaachem http://raaachem.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-91 Mon, 06 Apr 2009 11:09:00 +0000 http://raaachem.wordpress.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-91 i agree that there is a difference between ‘talking shit’ and ‘speaking the truth’.. and although we as women take that difference to the heart when SPEAKING shit, its a whole different ballgame when HEARING it, no? cuz i gives a fuck if some bitch on the street thinks that my shoes are ugly for a fact… i still ask her “why u talkin shit?” and if u ask a man, its all shit. yeah?

and just goes to show how mature and secure a woman is based on the shit she says bout someone she dont even know..

and wtf was my point again?? FUCK abi ur rubbing off. maybe thats why we’re friends. hahahaha

]]> By: Mouf.Peace http://raaachem.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-92 Mon, 06 Apr 2009 11:02:00 +0000 http://raaachem.wordpress.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-92 o wait i found my point again. i think that “talking shit,” about ur friends is what separates the girls from the women. a real women would look at another women and not be jealous of them but ADMIRE them. and use that to motivate themselves not to be better than the other woman but just to be better a better individual PERIOD.

]]> By: Mouf.Peace http://raaachem.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-93 Mon, 06 Apr 2009 10:58:00 +0000 http://raaachem.wordpress.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-93 i think first of all that there’s a difference between “talking shit,” “hating,” and “reiterating the facts.”

when i “talk shit”, it’s usually totally impersonal and for laughs as fucked up as that may sound. for instance, flat ass bitch walks thru the spot like she’s the biniss: “whoah that broad got the LONGEST BACK!”

i can HONESTLY say i’ve never hated on anybody. most likely because i’ve gotten hated on all my life. and of course when u get hated on its usually FOR NO REASON. the closest i’ll get is, “UGH fuck that pretty ass bitch!” but even then i know AND admit it’s because i really can’t find any reason to hate her. jealous? no. envious? maybe.

and lastly, if a broad has a boyfriend and goes and fucks her best friends man and i say “what a backstabbing ho!” negra thats just REITERATING THE FACTS. don’t play lol.

i think it’s natural for HUMANS to be competitive towards each other, men and women just have different ways of dealing with the same issues. i think what u say about other people ESPECIALLY ur “friends” directly reflects how u feel about urself. some girls are just plain catty which is why i only have a handful of them. but when u are lucky enough to find REAL GIRLS i swear they can be arroz caldo for the soul.

i dunno i totally lost the point to this lmao and i’m kinda the wrong person to ask cuz when i see a pretty girl who gots steez and acts goofy I WANT HER TO BE MY FRIEND lol.

]]> By: lifeonmyside http://raaachem.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-94 Mon, 06 Apr 2009 10:39:00 +0000 http://raaachem.wordpress.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-94 damn. story of my life.

-soulmate

]]> By: kng http://raaachem.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-95 Mon, 06 Apr 2009 09:30:00 +0000 http://raaachem.wordpress.com/2009/04/04/haterade/#comment-95 i can dig it.

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