Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. Look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true. Think only of the best, work only for the best, and expect only the best. Forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future. Give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others. Live in faith that the whole world is on your side, so long as you are true to the best that is in you.
for ’09
29 Decmaryyyyyy…
12 Deci read this poem on gailey’s blog yesterday that really smacked me in the face. how many times do we make the same mistake in our lives, before we realize we need to change? thanks mary fo’ da kine truth like dat.
By: Portia Nelson
I walk down the street, there is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I fall in.
I am lost … I am helpless.
It isn’t my fault.
It takes forever to find a way out.
I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend I don’t see it.
I fall in again.
I can’t believe I am in the same place.
But it isn’t my fault.
It takes a long time to get out.
I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see it there.
I still fall in… it’s a habit … but,
my eyes are open.
I know where i am.
It is my fault.
I get out immediately.
I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I walk around it.
I walk down another street.
thanks Tee
6 Nov“Rachel? She’s not friendly, but she’s a good friend.” – Tee
i couldnt have said it better myself. =)
she’s cute…..
23 Octok after reading another blog on the term ‘cute’ i got to thinking wtf this word actually means.
i know u hear ur friends talking bout some dude, or some chick, and someone may say ‘they cute’. wtf does that mean? seriously? they aint ugly? they are ugly but just too nice to be called ugly? she a danielle? (btw a danielle is… “body of a goddess, face from hell”) this word is just so damn ambiguous so i went and asked my buddy list for their personal meaning for the word cute.
this is what my friends and i came up with, when posed with the question “what is your definition of ‘cute’?”
“most of the time it means he’s just too nice to be called ugly. but if i say she’s HELLA cute.. then i think she’s pretty dope but just dont wanna gas up her head. and cute is one step above aight — which means she’s humpback with 3 teeth.” – me
“definition of cute? ummmmm UGLY!” – anna
“me personally i hate the word cute cuz it reminds me of adorable -
babies and puppies.. so i guess cute is good looking but in an adorable way” – abi“ed.” – ed
“a little scruffy but still look clean. but clean clean cut is cute too. but if they look cute their cockiness would make them ugly. cute overall. cute face and beer belly is NOT CUTE.” – iya
“cute is who u bring home to mom and dad. hott is who u bring to show off to ur
friends.” – gail“it means he’s more on the ugly side. but his personality could make or break him” – lisa
“cute is like ehhhhhhh.. not ugly i guess.” – adri
“cute — nice smile and teeth — and nice hair–hilarious and other things. oh and nice shoes and some steez” – leslie
“she aint hella sexy, but she’s attractive in the face. its like i’d say, ‘shes not hella fine, but she’s cute’ and cute is still hitable. ” – brian
“me.” – boogs
“attractive, but not like oh i gotta have him” – jill
“guys dont give girls credit for being nice. we just say things like, ‘she aight’ or ‘she aint cute but shes not ugly ugly’” — john (p.s. is there a difference between ugly and ugly ugly?)
“that he’s decent looking and nice to look at, but not someone i’d be willing to take my panties off for.” – bern
“good looking, possibly pretty boy or handsome but not necessarily hot.” – kris
“when a guy calls me cute, i say dogs are cute.” – angela
“he aight. or maybe young. like young meat. they aint developed enough to be fine. but they still good looking. or when i hear someone say he’s hella cute to me that means he got no swag.” – nes
“i usually think pretty boys are cute. and then i think swaggalicious boys are fine. ” – tee
“a girl who can make me laugh hard is cute.” – pat pat
so there u have it. i dunno if that clears it up or makes it more confusing? but my conclusion is that ‘cute’ means he COULD be fine, if only…(fill in blank). but anna u can thank u and ur friends for making me blog about this shit. her blog is cute. HA! anyways.. got another explanation for me? drop a line.
Live ya life HEY!
17 Octallergic to the counterfeit.
impartial to the politics.
articulate.
but still would grab a bitch by the collar quick. – T.I.
– Post From My iPhone

he said, she said.