relax.

[10:51] Gailey: if theyre scared that we’ll meet someone else that might sweep us off their feet with their shinning armor… our boys should STEP their game up and worry about KEEPING us instead of LOSING US!

can we all thank my Vegas Mary for speaking the truth this morning! u’ve all seen it, wether u’ve been with a man like this,  or seen one of ur girlfriends date a man like this. .. some men just CANNOT handle their women doing anything without them.

and when i say anything, i mean anything.  can’t go to out without him, gets butthurt when she wants to go home instead of come over, hella selfish, hella controlling, hella jealous, can’t even use the bathroom without him tryna be there holding her hand.

is this their way of showing affection?  or just tryin to keep tabs on their lady?   and i know, i know, its better than some guys who just dont give a fuck, but dont u think thats just too much?   i mean, i’m a woman. i like cupcakin, i like spending time, i like pda.   but when u tell me i can’t have dinner at 7, cuz u dont get off work till 9….   thats  borderline psychotic, dontcha think?   

and even tho the girl in the equation may put up with it at first.. it dont take long for it to get more than lightweight annoying.    so fellas, LET A GIRL BREATHE and she’ll make sure u stay within arm’s reach.  truuussssttt.    dont give her the side eye when she wants a “girls night out” or automatically assume she dont love you when she wants to hit the beach by herself.    cuz if you’ve forgotten, you’re supposed to compliment her, not complete her.   so quit tryin to be her other half.  she’s a perfect whole all by herself.  

and instead of being the crazy jealous guy who is worried about her leaving you… be the supporting kick-ass boyfriend who is secure about himself and the relationship.  it goes a long way.  

remember what Abi said.. “if you dont want men calling your girlfriend pretty, date someone ugly. ”

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One comment

  1. Pink Diamond · June 23, 2009

    Amen sista..AMEN MUTHA FUCKEN MEN..
    With that said I let my 9 yr relationship go and your blog right here connected all too well.
    Although 9yrs can build other problems and issues this hit home.

    Keep on keeping on, bc when i read various blogs thay tickle my fancy or are all too familiar it adds spice to my days. And with my mixed latina enthnicty please beleive I need to keep it spicy.

    I love how you protray such strength and character through your words. I admire that ina ny person but most importantly in any woman.

    Smile Tuesday is a great day =)
    “Yvonne”

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