Ain’t no future in ur frontin’

sadly, as much as i’m all about giving people the benefit of the doubt, things happen that show me exactly why its hard to trust.   the girl you once admired for her beauty and seemingly put together life, is apparently anything but soon as you meet her acquaintance.

instead, she’s actually a social climber so self-involved that, while trying to gain everyone’s acceptance, stands for abslutely nothing of worth.  her once inspiring words have become a meaningless semblance of bullshit and i will never forgive myself.    why?   because i thought i was a good judge of character…  and she has proven me wrong.

to think that the number of people in her network  was in direct collrelation to her net worth was a miscalculation on my part.  i won’t let it happen again.    i don’t want what they’re buying…i can’t respect her front.

i don’t want to be friends with the girl who doesn’t own up to her own mistakes.  or the girl who gives me excuses instead of apologies, and i can’t respect the hustle when it doesn’t come from a genuine place.   

i stand by my opinions and my actions.  wrong or right, they are MINE and i own them.  i’m looking solely for like-minded people.  if you fit the bill holla at me…  a space just opened up.


  1. ReptarParker · March 11, 2010

    Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaayum. You cut that woman in half.

  2. Cammille · March 11, 2010

    Damn, on point with this one! I’m sharing this! 🙂

  3. vanessa · March 11, 2010

    Haha I effin love your thinking process, I wait every morning to see if your on my google reader!

    • Raaachem · March 15, 2010

      Awww, Thank you vanessa! Loves!

  4. Shannon · March 11, 2010

    I know someone exactly like that and I’m wondering if it’s the same person…hmmm.

  5. Shannon · March 11, 2010

    I know someone exactly like that and I’m wondering if it’s the same person…hmmm. It’s annoying, but funny at the same time because it just goes to show how people can be such a joke!

    • Raaachem · March 15, 2010

      Shannon… how HILARIOUS! i was DYING after we hit u up. be in ur hood soon! =)

  6. DbdK Shoes · March 23, 2010

    Aw, this was a really quality post. In theory I’d like to write like this too – taking time and real effort to make a good article… but what can I say… I procrastinate alot and never seem to get something done.

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