If you haven’t already noticed, Abi and I have a lot of stupid conversation. We laugh and talk shit and plan parties and trips. One of the reasons we get along so well is because we agree on a lot of things: food should taste good, men are stupid, the gay is great, and girls-only vacations are mandatory. The one thing that we don’t always agree on? How pretty girls are.
She thinks almost every girl is pretty. And almost every single time, I disagree.
Ok, before you hang me by my fingernails, let me first be more specific. It’s not that I think every girl is UGLY. It’s just that I don’t think they’re as pretty as u may think they are. As a woman, I reserve using the word “pretty” for those who are actually deserving of it — supermodels and supermoms alike. Most girls fall within the “alright” or “cute” category with me, and I have no problem calling an ugly girl ugly. Especially if she thinks she’s pretty prettier than me most. But hey, ugly girls need self-love too.
Do I sound conceited yet? I’m not trying to be. I’m just trying to keep it real.
Don’t get it twisted. I do think that every woman is beautiful in her own right. I think that beauty starts from within and that the prettiest girls are the happy ones. On days that end in “y,” I hate the way I look and would kill for her skin, her stomach and your face. But on the days when I’m feelin’ a lil too pretty and petty? I might as well have reverse beer-goggles on cuz no one is safe from the truth as I see it.
So if I say you’re pretty, don’t take it lightly. It’s the highest compliment I can give a woman, especially if I don’t know her from a stranger on the street. Women are quick to call their girlfriends “pretty” and “gorgeous” when most of the time they’re…not so much. Thats fine, I do it, you do it, we all do it… personality, humor, and wit go a long way when judging the entire package. But Lesbi-honest here. There are a lot of beautiful women out there, I’m just not the one to lie about who they are.
Haha! Yes Abi thinks every girl is pretty! Even “STFU that’s my Tita Maritess!!” LMFAO!
HEY HEY NOW. i would HATE to be the girl i think is UGLY lmao.
Raaachem, you are the realest! I love it! Keep writing what you’re writing, girl. I love reading your posts.
Bay Area Love! We the Realest!
Thank you, mama! Bay love, all around the world =)
“Men are stupid.” I sincerely believe this and for some reason the whole world makes sense to me!