Hi, my name is Rachel Tan.
My driver’s license still says Rachel Tan Brito, but as of today my Facebook says Rachel Tan.
I know it sounds petty as fuck, but this is kind of like a big deal. It’s only Facebook, right? RIGHT. But it’s not just Facebook. It’s me owning who I am without being affiliated. It’s me saying to the world that I am my own woman and I do not belong to anybody else. It’s me letting go of the last 10 years of my life. It’s me setting myself free.
See, it’s not just a name and it’s not just Facebook. This is me shaking the weight. This is my independence.
And although I haven’t lost any weight as of late, I feel a thousand times lighter. I feel like the old me. Scratch that, I feel like a new me. Hi. My name is Rachel Tan. It’s nice to meet you.
“There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind. But keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world, it’s the beginning of a new life.” – Anonymous